tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395536338910501116.post6300962531922245409..comments2014-07-15T14:04:39.106+01:00Comments on I'm So Fancy: Fancy Needs a HolidayI'm So Fancyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11186039627894811361noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395536338910501116.post-34582919553071065712011-01-08T22:11:10.383+00:002011-01-08T22:11:10.383+00:00Ahhhh, blogger ate my comment!!
Anyway, the Alpha...Ahhhh, blogger ate my comment!!<br /><br />Anyway, the Alpha Male often says to me "Get down off your bloody cross, we need the wood for the log burner" so I pass that nugget of sarcasm along from one martyr to another. <br /><br />I was probably at my worst during our expat years with the live in Filipino maid (something about justifying my existence apparently) so you are in good company. Just try saying no &/or walking away sometimes. It's a tough situation which few feel sympathy for, though with your fancy crowd of friends I bet you don't have to play "count the eye rolls" every time you gripe about the help!<br /><br />If you figure a way not to be the martyr yet still be the wife, mother, friend, host & employer you aspire to be, please do pass along the secret!<br /><br />MD xxxMrsVikkitoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14907024797797093935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395536338910501116.post-4878145066838078262011-01-07T15:00:35.103+00:002011-01-07T15:00:35.103+00:00Hey you, Tagged you over here - http://www.notesto...Hey you, Tagged you over here - http://www.notestoselfplustwo.com/2011/01/i-%E2%99%A5-me-new-weekly-mclinky-blog-thing.htmlNotes to self plus twohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16396255505061434532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395536338910501116.post-26646723544471473872011-01-04T12:39:34.341+00:002011-01-04T12:39:34.341+00:00I'm just the same. Despite my partner not bein...I'm just the same. Despite my partner not being in work and being a real night owl why oh why was I the one doing all the night wakings for NINE MONTHS after Bub was born. AND all the early morning starts. Breastfeeding was a factor certainly but the main reasons were my complete inability to delegate, my huge control freak tendencies, and my masochistic martyred side. Going back to work in a few days though when he will be stepping up to the plate as the main childcarer. Well that's the plan anyway. Hope I can let it happen that way!<br /><br />It is nice to know that I'm not the only one like this though. Imagine if I'd had a nanny it would probably have been exactly the same.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com